Friday, February 19, 2016

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I LOVED BUT ALWAYS CHEATED


These days,many cry of heart break and a whole lot of unnecessary stories that even exists among the so-called responsible set of people. I always hear a very big lie from friends and from many intellectual personality bluffing!,pertaining if being faithful and honest in a relationship is still requisite and necessary and they deemed it fit to say that its not necessary anymore. 
But, I must correct this impression,if you think that you actually love someone,just try and maintain the meaning of love and never base on lust. When you discover that you truly love someone you'll notice that some annoying behavourial traits from your partner won't offend you that much. 
Faithfulness and trust has ran into the abyss and that has led love into extinction. My partner is dating another man and that I can't cope again. We complain a whole lot of times because we tend to devalue ourselves or has made our value to be built on our fellow human. 
When you're elevated in love,you'll notice that heart break will be far from you because love never drags you into the mud but lifts you up to numerous personality that deserves your company.

Thursday, February 18, 2016

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ADMIRATION


This guy is looking good,all day long,you've been dreaming about him/her. The guy is handsome/beautiful, tall,huge,reserved,gentle etc all these are external evaluation made within a twinkle of an eye. Well,good things attracts,but there are virtues that are abstract which ought to be the main reason for attraction that once is the core reason for your attraction will make your relationship last longer. Let's name them please,basically the one that attracts you the most.

Secondly,do you think that being attracted to someone else when you're already in a relationship will make you double date and cheat on your partner? It happens these days,and is an omen that must surely be addressed in order not to convert even the good personnels that have pledged to be faithful and honest,all through their life.

"She is more precious than rubies;nothing you desire can compare with her"-Proverbs
3 vs 15

The most intriguing factor that has rendered many people worthless and irresponsible is because of what we admire. We value fantasized packages that bears a very little poisonous substance that kills a destiny within a twinkle of an eye. Many things attracts us and so we admire it. Before we approach someone,most times we basically concentrates on the shape,the exposure of his/her body as a result of what the person is wearing and lots more but does that worth our attention? Wow! See her boobs,her beautiful leg and her breast,so cute and palatable. Automatically,you've already made mention of what is attracting you about her. And that attraction is what will keep and drive you,if you finally fall inside the cage.
When you've actually accessed and defined yourself,you'll discover that what attracts you in a woman or man is far different from what attracts the wayward fellows. Discrimination or Judgment on some persons that might be dressing nude or whatsoever,is not permitted in my arena but at least before you can keep a date or keep someone as a close friend of yours,first of all look beyond the physical because what needs to keep a man is not how good she look outside but the content of the person. I'll rest my case here but to him that wants to identify him/herself with a good character and better relationship, should first of all,make the right choice today.

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THE WEAKNESS OF YOUR GREATNESS.


Naturally,greatness is very weak,lazy,sluggish and very dormant. I've actually tried to give a second thought about ones GREATNESS and I discovered that,greatness lies in a resting position and dormant inside of you which can never generate any achievement on her own,unless you've subjected yourself to personal development.

Now,even the truck-pushers,touts in the streets and many more that seems to be surfaced with diverse circumstances are not out of greatness but the major difference between the achievers and the less achievers is that they tried everything possible to see that the greatness inside of them were tamed to be strong and was fed properly with the necessary diet,which is continuous development. Embracing of high values is another way of activating your greatness.

"Your greatness remains inactive,until you feed her properly with the balance diet which is persistent and continuous development"
-Emmanuel Akudolu.

Sunday, January 31, 2016

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LADIES NUGGET 2


In the previous part,I strictly discussed about the lack of character,sauciness and nudity of a woman which may contribute to the setback of her not able to meet her man or missing rib. In this part, I will be talking about beauty, cooking and vision.

BEAUTY

There’s nothing that attracts the sane and insane than beauty. Beauty naturally magnets the eye-balls of all living creatures. Even animals are attracted to beauty, that’s a natural phenomenom. One of the poems I read in my secondary school days, reminds me of a saying; “when you don’t appreciate beauty, you’ll soon become poor”. But, does appreciating beauty makes the individual a better person?NO! Not as if I hate beauty, but one’s beauty has nothing to do with your character, as a woman.

There’s a popular saying that beauty attracts but character keeps, and that’s for sure. Don’t think that show-casing your thighs, your cleavages or even wear an exposing clothing that radically x-rays your inner wears to public, will make attracted to the best man for you, hell No! that’s impossible.

Beauty is good but first and foremost, make your character and attitude your concern. Once beauty is considered too much more than character,it makes one faulty,because her effort will be one taking care of the skin or outer man rather than the inner man.
“Beauty is an added advantage, when your character is strictly considered to be harnessed”
-Emmanuel C. Akudolu

COOKING:
No matter how weird our culture could be compared to the western world on how men could enter into the kitchen and cook,its always the duty of every woman to make kitchen her second home. “I don’t know how to cook” and you’re so proud to publicize it to the public? One of the magical means of stealing a man’s heart is by preparing good dish. A lady automatically steals her man’s heart when she’s quite known to be good cook. I appreciate some parents that will always say that,even when we travel out,we are so eager to learn how to prepare different dishes with different styles.

Are you the type that cooks, and your food will always be excessively maneuvered by either salt, pepper or that you lack timing to know when food ought to be removed from fire. All these are problems and when it is not treated right, when you’re still single, it becomes a problem between you and your man(depending on the individual)

“A good cook has the power to keep his man because the major source of strength of a man,is his stomach”
-Emmanuel C. Akudolu

VISION
No matter how beautiful you’re ‘Intelligence and vision will always be the compass that any purposeful man can use,in order to be directed to the woman he thinks that can make him increase in his pursuit as a successful man everyday’ One thing about a visionary is that it makes his man very focused and encouraged to pursue more in life. Very few men that are well educated and accomplished in life will be notified with a lady that’s not well built up in her career.

That’s why some high profiled men will always try to marry their type because they’ve similar things in common. Any woman that will always be keen to request money always,either for cosmetics,cloths etc will never be valuable and of no importance to the husband because she’s not all that good in putting the future into consideration,rather she’s been designed in such a way that she’s now myopic about everything. Ain’t trying to sound judgmental but it becomes a problem when it becomes excessive and that you’re not eager to work and get the money to take good care of yourself.

A lady is meant to be hardworking and a visionary and not only spending time in enjoyment. I discovered that some ladies feels reluctant to continue their education,not because they have no opportunity of furthering but have decide to rely on the wealth of her husband. By commission or omission renders you to be taken as nothing as time goes on.

“WHY AM I DELAYED IN MARRIAGE?” You’re busy asking that question everyday while some persons are busy asking, “AMONG ALL THESE MEN,WHO WILL I CHOOSE TO BE MY HUSBAND?” But the fact still remains that the second question springs forth from the mouth of a purposeful, visionary, and a very hardworking lady while the first question is asked by ladies that had already decided long time ago to build their foundation on the bed rock of her husband’s wealth and that’s very uncalled-for.

“A Lady attracts all men when she’s driven by her purpose or vision which indirectly brightens up the beauty everyday. Such beauty, never fades.
-Emmanuel C. Akudolu
…To be continued

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LADIES NUGGETS 1


HEY! BLOW-OFF THE MUCUS.
We want to be better, but we are still letting the mucus to let drop from our nose. Oh!,why all these frustration,embarrassment and delay in the pursuit of my man? You ran all the way from NIGERIA to KENYA to seek for solution but all to no avail. You seek for spiritual help,good and fine,that's cool. At the second thought,have you ever tried to settle down and think about yourself.


I'M THE CAUSE
You're responsible for anything that happens to you. Oh! ye man,you're inexcusable. You're actually the cause of your problems. Let's watch closely on these simple facts:-


UNMARRIED
No man loves me and i think that God hates me. All the blame now, is on God. You want a real,gentle,honourable,rich,God-fearing man etc but if you can tell yourself the truth,you'll discover that you're the opposite of the kind of man you wanted.

WALKING NAKED AND EXPOSED(NUDITY) AND EXPECTING A WELL DRESSED MAN.
When the whole world is viewing your inner part of your body,'every where you go' Are you MTN advertiser? Why must your private part become public part? Hey,lovely ladies of the 21st century,no one is behind your misfortune but just that you've decided your fate wrongly. How do you think that a gentle man that is well built up,will ask for your hand in marriage?

CHARACTERSauciness is no more a news,when a man will kindly excuse you for a little talk,you've started to shout above your voices. No manner of approach,how do you think that you can unknowingly welcome the man of your dream by being saucy. Beauty attracts but character keeps. Don't rely on your beauty but basically look after your character.

-TO BE CONTINUED...
Emmanuel C. Akudolu's

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

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MOTIVATE YOURSELF



1. What you're afraid of,is also afraid of you. Pick courage and confront the terrorist.

2. The more you challenge things,the more you experience change within you.

3. Most times you're insulted because you don't know who you're or either by knowingly or unknowingly have rendered yourself cheap.

4. Even in free town,there's nothing free. Anything free in most cases has no value.
5. The more busy you are,the more money you make,but the more idle you're,the more money you waste.
6. Most times,it is an understatement to tell someone to first work hard,if so,even the barrow-pushers would have been the richest. Work smart and work hard.
7. You've discovered that friends don't appreciate you the way you're,never feel alone and devastated because its an opportunity to work on yourself and to search the best out of you.
8. Until I read,I will never possess power of confrontation before men,because knowledge is power.
9. Men has nothing to back themselves up,that's why I'll never leave God,till he makes me a vessel of honor.
10. I was created for a purpose, living for it is the only route to my accomplishment in life.
‪#‎InspiredToMotivate‬.

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FEED YOURSELF RIGHTLY

  • Emmanuel Akudolu's blog's photo.
Your actions are the product of what you see and hear. Discipline yourself to get rid of the naughty views of yours,may be on your phones,personal computers,magazines and the rest.Pornography is the greatest of them, is pleasurable but kills slowly.

What you give heed to, matters a lot that sub-consciously you're driven like a rudder by what you find your ears interesting. Be lifted in spirit and in action by being selective on what you watch and listen to, because they make you.

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