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THE REAL MAN-A PURPOSE DRIVEN PERSONALITY
I’ve made certain obvious discoveries on this issue of the real man. There has been conflicting signals which tends to portray one concept or the other over the guy who really is the real man. These concepts are mainly generated by the female gender, whose ideas about the real man are mostly based on sentiments and emotions. These sentimental approach to defining a real man gives rise to certain concepts which to them is a scale for determining the man who is real for sure. But are these concepts true? An answer that will only come from within the very deepest sincere part of the male gender. These concepts of the female gender are being guided by “emotions” and “sentiments” –which serves as a determinant of love for a 21st century lady. A man who is yet to touch these two parts of a lady's life today is seen as an amateur.
Just as regards to what we see in our friendship and relationship. A purpose driven guy could be friends with a girl. Being inspired by purpose and bent on actualizing a God given vision. A lady on the other hand seems not to be interested in the guy’s life of purpose, but rather on the presumed roles which to her carries the full course of a real man. Sometimes the guy in question if not firmly rooted in his God given purpose gets carried away and begins to answer what I call the “The Voice to come Home”. The male individual gets compelled to become the man through the roles he plays on the females side rather than the purpose driven signal he sends on her fore front. This compulsion could cause him to begin to make promises and proposals which he has never given a single thought of fulfillment to the detriment of the female recipient.
He is then trapped to make a costly assumption of the vague fact that the image of a REAL MAN is anchored on ROLES - showing affection, care, sex e.t.c. These has become the subject of defining a real man. This consequently resulting to cracks and fissures in so many good relationships and friendships. Is this really the true picture of a real man.
WHO IS A REAL MAN?
A real man is someone who knows the reality of who he is and who lives in that reality.
~Dr. Myles Munroe.
Do you see a man diligent in his works, he shall stand before kings.
~SCRIPTURE
A real man is a man who has a purpose – a God given work with a sincere determination to uphold diligence in the God given vision.
To the ladies, stop being concerned about fugitive roles, which to some people is a perfect instrument in the art of seduction. Again stop getting more interested in what you want to hear than what you want to see that poor innocent guy become. Remember love is patience. And where there is a will, there is a way.
To the guys, lets uphold the real tenets of being the real men we are created to be. Having this understanding that the true identity of a man is found in his purpose not in his roles.
Sincerely yours in the spirit
~Godfrey Eyah
