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HEY! BLOW-OFF THE MUCUS.
We want to be better, but we are still letting the mucus to let drop from our nose. Oh!,why all these frustration,embarrassment and delay in the pursuit of my man? You ran all the way from NIGERIA to KENYA to seek for solution but all to no avail. You seek for spiritual help,good and fine,that's cool. At the second thought,have you ever tried to settle down and think about yourself.


I'M THE CAUSE
You're responsible for anything that happens to you. Oh! ye man,you're inexcusable. You're actually the cause of your problems. Let's watch closely on these simple facts:-


UNMARRIED
No man loves me and i think that God hates me. All the blame now, is on God. You want a real,gentle,honourable,rich,God-fearing man etc but if you can tell yourself the truth,you'll discover that you're the opposite of the kind of man you wanted.

WALKING NAKED AND EXPOSED(NUDITY) AND EXPECTING A WELL DRESSED MAN.
When the whole world is viewing your inner part of your body,'every where you go' Are you MTN advertiser? Why must your private part become public part? Hey,lovely ladies of the 21st century,no one is behind your misfortune but just that you've decided your fate wrongly. How do you think that a gentle man that is well built up,will ask for your hand in marriage?

CHARACTERSauciness is no more a news,when a man will kindly excuse you for a little talk,you've started to shout above your voices. No manner of approach,how do you think that you can unknowingly welcome the man of your dream by being saucy. Beauty attracts but character keeps. Don't rely on your beauty but basically look after your character.

-TO BE CONTINUED...
Emmanuel C. Akudolu's

1. What you're afraid of,is also afraid of you. Pick courage and confront the terrorist.

2. The more you challenge things,the more you experience change within you.

3. Most times you're insulted because you don't know who you're or either by knowingly or unknowingly have rendered yourself cheap.

4. Even in free town,there's nothing free. Anything free in most cases has no value.
5. The more busy you are,the more money you make,but the more idle you're,the more money you waste.
6. Most times,it is an understatement to tell someone to first work hard,if so,even the barrow-pushers would have been the richest. Work smart and work hard.
7. You've discovered that friends don't appreciate you the way you're,never feel alone and devastated because its an opportunity to work on yourself and to search the best out of you.
8. Until I read,I will never possess power of confrontation before men,because knowledge is power.
9. Men has nothing to back themselves up,that's why I'll never leave God,till he makes me a vessel of honor.
10. I was created for a purpose, living for it is the only route to my accomplishment in life.
‪#‎InspiredToMotivate‬.

You are propelled within you,to do something crazy and entertaining but you ask,where and how do i start? Start on yourself,those pictures that you have in mind,try make it real for the world to see.

Bad it may look at the first place,yes! but consistency of creation from what you know which is packed up in your mind, will certainly make you outshine your previous performance.

‪#‎BeCreative‬

1. When faced with Man, Woman and
wealth, chose Man, he is the controller of
wealth. But you must have chosen a
supernatural being, God or whatever.

2. When caught between the devil and
the deep blue sea, move to the devil and
strike a deal. You have no options in the
sea, the devil can get you there.

3. Be objective with women, don't have
anything to deal with them . Unless you
can perfectly use them, that is, if you are
good in manipulating.

4. If you effusively show people you care
about them, you will be taken for
granted and your care wont be
reciprocated. Ultimately, don't care at all,
or simply, care, but appear not to care.

5. Men(&women) are naturally devious,
be frugal and stingy with being nice.
They will thank you because custom calls
for it but ultimately, they will device a
way to use you. Be nice to needing
strangers.

6. Forgive, appear to have forgotten but
diplomatically revenge. They deliberately
chose to wrong you at the first instance
(because they knew forgiveness exist and
revenge is for God, but we are gods-like).
If you fail to revenge, they will wrong you
again and look upon your forgiveness
again.

7. Men are weighed by the words they
utter, at a new environment, don't talk,
just smile rarely and when you begin to
talk, say what people won't understand
totally, give their imagination a work
then you earn and keep your respects.

8. Remember!, if you want to be loved
and respected at the same time, then
you must learn how to command fear,
silence, charity, ruthlessness and smiles.

9. Don't join a mob or group, by so doing,
you lose your salt: focus, point, objective.
Always stand out wisely or don't be active
at all.

10. Don't strive to be loved, you won't
achieve that. Just strive to be perfect in
whatever you do, because it is only in
your achievements you would find
happiness and joy; that is self-love.

11. If you want to manifest Destiny, you
have to take what you can when you can.

By ~Goodluck Chiemelie Okechukwu ©®

I kissed her softly when I missed her the most
She kept no secret from me
What manner of love does she shower on me?
I am poor and lacked the crucial resources.
But she continued to love me always.

She embraced me warmly,the first time we met.
I’ve been longing for thee for so long,I said.
I saw you in the beautiful places,
Dressed in a gown of many colours
But many despise you,even in your good appearances.

How beautiful are thou,
You give honour to your lovers
You’re a friend to thousands of men,
Should I call you a prostitute? No,never will I.
Because that’s how you’re meant to be.

Haemophrodite, maybe that’s what you’re created to be,
You love both men and women that loves you back
You have fun with them when they needed you,
You meet with them all at the same time separately,
Are you omnipresence? Maybe that’s the nature of your father.

What a wonderful creature,your excreters are more valuable,
Than the most beautiful things in the world.
You’re laid by thousands of men and women,
Yet,you remain a virgin even for ages
Mystery upon mystery circulates you

You’ve adorned my head with a crown of glory,
And has bathed me with a bottle of alabaster
I smell good and people comes to me because of you
Now I know what it means to be with the right love.
Love you my love ‘CREATIVITY’.

-Emmanuel Akudolu

Push!!! The doctor tells the mother in labour, and after some struggles, the battle is won and the new life is added to this cruel world. 

“Three things determine a man’s make-up, his genetic combination, the environment and unique experiences”- Francis Akinsemolu.

There are basically 4 temperamental traits: the outgoing and lively sanguine, the strong-willed, stubborn and aggressive Choleric, the meditative, quiet and calculative melancholic and the steady, slow and understanding Phlegmatic.

This remains the reason why a very funny dad may have a son/daughter who is also funny, as the child has picked up the sanguine trait of the parent which is the genetic make-up. In the same vein the environment has a way of infiltrating and sending its own signal to the growing individual.

This is the reason; a Choleric in Lekki would naturally be less aggressive and calmer than a choleric in Ajegunle as the razzmatazz and the bubbling or nefarious activities of these two areas of Lagos differs. While Lekki is the cool, serene and residential area of the affluent and the crème de la crème of the Lagos society, Ajegunle on the other hand is the home of the rough, the men of the underworld and the den of the craziest among the crazy of Lagos, it also truly lives out the mantra “Survival of the fittest”.

Among the coordinating cardinals that shape and model the lifestyle of the youths of this generation, I bet to say the unique experiences we encounter ends up being the litmus that determines what our science students tag PH value (acidity and alkaline level) of our life.

Our unique experiences range from having abusive parents to rough childhood, heart wrecking break-ups, rape, assault, sudden wealth e.t.c
It is quite unfortunate that these unique experiences have been the determinants of the way the youths of these generation live their life.
Many of us have at one point in our lives been raped or assaulted which has continually haunted us and made of us “hateful” individuals. We now hate the opposite sex or an unnatural fear continually pokes in our heart thus becoming an albatross around our neck.

Many of us lived our childhood and teenage years with abusive parents who continually drummed into our hearings how useless and worthless we are. They continually expose our flaws to us making us to come to the reality that we are meant to serve our mates and that we are never going to amount to anything in life.

 We now live our lives plagued with inferiority complex and need good clothes to feel good crave for the acceptance of others to live our lives and now a disgrace to what we should have become. We are now condemned to live a life of second fiddle.

Many of us have gone through nerve wrecking break-ups that leaves us shattered, broken and now depressed. Life is now boring and there seems not to be any reason to live any longer as we now feel life itself is a mirage and we need to stop it to stop the illusion.

Am not coming today, as a saint or a saviour, but, as a friend that have shared your experience. It is time to beat these unique experiences in their game of making life a living hell, it is time to stand on our feet and make a meaning out of life.

The only thing that can stop you from living your best life is not that rape, assault, inferiority complex e.t.c. but you. It is time to break from the frame and live a life with purpose. If you refuse to live your life, Progenity would curse you for denying them the right to impact

I believe in your success and your dramatic recovery from the life of an under-dog to that of a super-achiever.
I am Femi Xplosionz, A believer in your greatness.

FEMI XPLOSION

After my first writing on the previous part, I was opportuned to write the second part on the topic ‘YEAR OF CREATIVITY part 2’. After few minutes of writing I just dressed up for church hastily. Now, in the church compound. Everywhere glittering magnificently. What a sweet melody inside the church, I ran so quickly because I always feel guilty whenever I’m late to church. I went straight to a pew that seems to be empty.

Hey! , go look for another pew, the one you are sitting on is the bishop’s wife pew, someone just whispered from behind,to my hearing. Oh! , I need to look for another pew. It was in-between a fair beautiful young lady and a boy that slept throughout the programme. I pitied him though because my body was meant to be his pillow.

Maybe that’s how God destined it to be that on a very good day that someone will sleep profusely on my body, even when the guy was standing. Is he a somnambulist?. After several dancing and praises to God, it was time to welcome a wonderful preacher to the pulpit.

“With clapping and standing ovation, let’s make welcome, Rev. Mike Okoh”

Here he’s, with his style of coming out on the pulpit with calmness and meditatively. The preaching commences. “2016 is blank and empty, waiting for us to create and design it” This single utterance kept me marveled. As if that one is just a tip of an ice-berg, he continued

“Creativity begins when thought are turned into word” he continued “Whatever you are programming, envisioning and thinking ought to be turned into reality”

He continued, impossibilities is a possible thing that nobody has never dared to try. Keep investing, even when there’s no result because investment will surely bring a result. Momentary challenges of 2016 will not outweigh the creative abilities that will fight/conquer the challenges.

That was the topic I just released online ‘CREATIVITY’ I thought. That gave me a full confirmation that truly, 2016 is the year of creativity. The son of a creator is also a creator. Create something because you have the power to be creative. Being dormant and idle without trying to make use of your mind is a very infectious and deadly attitude that will keep your mind far away from creativity.

BISHOP OWEN NWOKOLO, THE BISHOP ON THE NIGER continued the second sermon “A YEAR OF GREATER GLORY” that’s a good one I thought. Once creativity is met, glory follows it. He continues, the glory of the former house will be greater than the former. Oh! I was elevated in spirit. I’ve taken enough that will sustain me for this year I soliloquized faintly. To attain this glory you have 5D to observe;

D=Dis-satisfaction (when you’re contented with the little you have achieved, you’re certified not to achieve more and bigger)

D=Devotion

D=Direction

D=Discipline

D=Determination.

Observing these 5D will help you go into glory by the aid of creativity. Try it and feel the difference between 2015 &2016. It is well.



THE STRANGE FEELING

The clock is ticking 11:59pm with the seconds hand reading 37. The bishop still speaking as the camera men were videoing the analogue clock, and all eyes were on the television waiting for the time to migrate from 2015 to 2016. It has happened and everyone started shouting joyfully that we have made it to 2016. Tears let drop my eyes, as the feelings that I don’t deserve to be alive to enter 2016, stiffens my whole body.

Tears filled my eyes, as I went out to stare on the fire-crackers that was set inside the church compound that released not less than 200 shots. Now, going back home with the feelings that, the tears that I shed was for a reason. I discovered that the greater blessings and opportunity that am going to embrace this year, is going to be so mighty on me that resources will start falling at my feet unlimitedly. Be determined to make this year the best out of others. Still ringing, ‘YEAR OF CREATIVITY’. Thanks for your audience. To be sure that you read to the end, comment: I AM CREATED TO CREATE!!!

'Our ideas has a stronger wing than that of an eagle,to that effect,fly above the mountains'- Emmanuel Akudolu

"Fly above the mountains',he said. Right? Yes. That's what i said. How possible could that be? Your idea can only possess the power to fly above the mountains,when you've decided to be creative enough to convert your ideas from it's raw state, to its consumption state. Your idea is much essential but the problem in our era is that,we conceive a whole lot of ideas but fail to maximize it.

"...Whatsoever your mind conceive that you can achieve"- Napoleon Hill

Napoleon Hill made a very good clarification on that. Your mind has conceived so many thoughts and idea,but how good do you implement it. Oh! is too much for me to achieve my dreams or the ideas that are running helter skelter on my mind. All these ideas are all hitting the walls of your mind. 2016 is the year of telling yourself,i can make it real. Remember that your idea has a stronger wing than of an eagle

Are you actually crazy before your friends,when you toil all day long doing those things that can seriously enhance your your rate of creativity? There are enzymes that can increase the rate of your creativity. They're derived from the word 'CREATE' itself. Enjoy the game here-

C-Creation: You're created and so you've to create something else. The supreme being created something out of nothing and here you're with ideas which you can use to create out something. Hey,you have no excuse not to be celebrated.

"The measure of your life is not it's duration but donation"-Peter Marshall

Make yourself count with your donation of being creative in 2016

R-Read: Reading unlocks the power of your imagination.
"Exercise is for the body as reading is for the mind"-Brian Tracy.

E-Enroll into discipleship: Go for activities that will help you positively. Discipleship helps you become polished by men that has already attain the height of creativity in some ways.

"Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment"-Jim Rohn

A-Action: Talking is easy but the productivity of your idea lies on the immediate action that you take,in order to prove to the world that you are unique.
"Action is the foundational key to all success"-Pablo Picasso

T-Time: Spend time on anything that you enjoy the most which can elevate your creativity.
"Time and memory are true artists;they mould reality nearer to the heart's desire"-John Dewey

2016 IS THE TIME TO SAY NO TO LIFE THAT'S VOID OF CREATIVITY. EMBRACE IT AND WORK TOWARDS IT. YOU CAN DO IT.