I want to be like Kim Kardashian, Beyonce,Yemi Alade,Jay-Z, Chris Brown,Davido etc That's cool and fine. Everyone has their choice to make. Come to think of this,in the name of being like all these people that we admire,how do we actually look, after we've finally imitated them,either in dressing,hair making? etc. Being like someone else,automatically makes you a counterfeit of the person you're imitating and also,renders your existence and personality into extinction.
Maybe your knee has developed some hard tissues that have been weakened and rendered to death because of your constant prayers by kneeling,asking God to supply you with your own man. Let me shock you,your partner in life is never far from you,even if he/she is in US and you are here in Nigeria,something strange may likely cause the union of both the lady and the young man to come together. But the problem today is that we have foolishly despised our image in order to look like someone else.
Your partner sees you on the road,but he cannot recognize you because your image,lifestyle and so many things that ought not to exist in your life has come to be a 'veil' that covers your real attractions and image from your man. Stop being like Helen,be like Agbomma that you're known for; stop being like Brown,be like Omemgboji that you're known for. It makes you more attractive than what you pretend to be. Be yourself and never compromise your personality just because of people's attitude towards you.
#RemainReal
In the means to attract people,we easily sell off our dignity,pride and our price(value). We run to people up and down,trying to make ourselves 'notice me' as if we are doing a bail-out marketing(bend down select) in the presence of all,indirectly,you're degrading yourself. "Empty vessel makes the loudest noise" And so will you see some fellows that haven't attained any height as a base of achievement or proof that he is equal to the task,he/she will be roaming around,trying to force themselves to people. Indecent dressing has also showed a very pitiable lifestyle that depicts the hustling nature of us,trying to fix ourselves to others. Your cleavages is opened beyond imagination,you used almost a bucket of paint to cover your face Etc. What's the reason behind their actions? Its latest fashion in town.
"That it looks good on a Mannequin does not really mean that it will look good on you" Make the best choice for yourself and not necessary copy-catting a lifestyle that doesn't merge to your personality. Stop begging men/women to fix into your life because you're too good for that. If you can develop yourself and brush up yourself(personal development) you'll notice that,you'll actually be the one that is been chased and looked for. Be purposeful and stop hustling to fit-in to peoples life. Let your virtues do the attraction and save yourself the stress of explaining yourself to people,in order for them to accept you.
•You worth more than a million gold.
We dash into a relationship that really gives us a wrong meaning which is far from our original definition of ourself. Who do you walk with and actually throw out your plans and secret to? Being in a relationship is not a guarantee that everything about you will be laid bare. Is she/he married to you? Nope!,to that effect,let not your relationship with people make you lose your taste and value. Everything about you,still remains confidential.
If being in a relationship will make you violate your principles,that relationship ought to go into extinction. You have a target,goal and a vision to accomplish but if he/she is not positive enough to make you feel that you're with the right person,better run for your life. Live with a sense of purpose,it makes your choice of partner very palatable that you'll live to keep remembering the purposeful relationship you've ever encountered in your life time.
These days,many cry of heart break and a whole lot of unnecessary stories that even exists among the so-called responsible set of people. I always hear a very big lie from friends and from many intellectual personality bluffing!,pertaining if being faithful and honest in a relationship is still requisite and necessary and they deemed it fit to say that its not necessary anymore.
But, I must correct this impression,if you think that you actually love someone,just try and maintain the meaning of love and never base on lust. When you discover that you truly love someone you'll notice that some annoying behavourial traits from your partner won't offend you that much.
Faithfulness and trust has ran into the abyss and that has led love into extinction. My partner is dating another man and that I can't cope again. We complain a whole lot of times because we tend to devalue ourselves or has made our value to be built on our fellow human.
When you're elevated in love,you'll notice that heart break will be far from you because love never drags you into the mud but lifts you up to numerous personality that deserves your company.
This guy is looking good,all day long,you've been dreaming about him/her. The guy is handsome/beautiful, tall,huge,reserved,gentle etc all these are external evaluation made within a twinkle of an eye. Well,good things attracts,but there are virtues that are abstract which ought to be the main reason for attraction that once is the core reason for your attraction will make your relationship last longer. Let's name them please,basically the one that attracts you the most.
Secondly,do you think that being attracted to someone else when you're already in a relationship will make you double date and cheat on your partner? It happens these days,and is an omen that must surely be addressed in order not to convert even the good personnels that have pledged to be faithful and honest,all through their life.
"She is more precious than rubies;nothing you desire can compare with her"-Proverbs
3 vs 15
The most intriguing factor that has rendered many people worthless and irresponsible is because of what we admire. We value fantasized packages that bears a very little poisonous substance that kills a destiny within a twinkle of an eye. Many things attracts us and so we admire it. Before we approach someone,most times we basically concentrates on the shape,the exposure of his/her body as a result of what the person is wearing and lots more but does that worth our attention? Wow! See her boobs,her beautiful leg and her breast,so cute and palatable. Automatically,you've already made mention of what is attracting you about her. And that attraction is what will keep and drive you,if you finally fall inside the cage.
When you've actually accessed and defined yourself,you'll discover that what attracts you in a woman or man is far different from what attracts the wayward fellows. Discrimination or Judgment on some persons that might be dressing nude or whatsoever,is not permitted in my arena but at least before you can keep a date or keep someone as a close friend of yours,first of all look beyond the physical because what needs to keep a man is not how good she look outside but the content of the person. I'll rest my case here but to him that wants to identify him/herself with a good character and better relationship, should first of all,make the right choice today.
Naturally,greatness is very weak,lazy,sluggish and very dormant. I've actually tried to give a second thought about ones GREATNESS and I discovered that,greatness lies in a resting position and dormant inside of you which can never generate any achievement on her own,unless you've subjected yourself to personal development.
Now,even the truck-pushers,touts in the streets and many more that seems to be surfaced with diverse circumstances are not out of greatness but the major difference between the achievers and the less achievers is that they tried everything possible to see that the greatness inside of them were tamed to be strong and was fed properly with the necessary diet,which is continuous development. Embracing of high values is another way of activating your greatness.
"Your greatness remains inactive,until you feed her properly with the balance diet which is persistent and continuous development"
-Emmanuel Akudolu.
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