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In the previous part,I strictly discussed about the lack of character,sauciness and nudity of a woman which may contribute to the setback of her not able to meet her man or missing rib. In this part, I will be talking about beauty, cooking and vision.

BEAUTY

There’s nothing that attracts the sane and insane than beauty. Beauty naturally magnets the eye-balls of all living creatures. Even animals are attracted to beauty, that’s a natural phenomenom. One of the poems I read in my secondary school days, reminds me of a saying; “when you don’t appreciate beauty, you’ll soon become poor”. But, does appreciating beauty makes the individual a better person?NO! Not as if I hate beauty, but one’s beauty has nothing to do with your character, as a woman.

There’s a popular saying that beauty attracts but character keeps, and that’s for sure. Don’t think that show-casing your thighs, your cleavages or even wear an exposing clothing that radically x-rays your inner wears to public, will make attracted to the best man for you, hell No! that’s impossible.

Beauty is good but first and foremost, make your character and attitude your concern. Once beauty is considered too much more than character,it makes one faulty,because her effort will be one taking care of the skin or outer man rather than the inner man.
“Beauty is an added advantage, when your character is strictly considered to be harnessed”
-Emmanuel C. Akudolu

COOKING:
No matter how weird our culture could be compared to the western world on how men could enter into the kitchen and cook,its always the duty of every woman to make kitchen her second home. “I don’t know how to cook” and you’re so proud to publicize it to the public? One of the magical means of stealing a man’s heart is by preparing good dish. A lady automatically steals her man’s heart when she’s quite known to be good cook. I appreciate some parents that will always say that,even when we travel out,we are so eager to learn how to prepare different dishes with different styles.

Are you the type that cooks, and your food will always be excessively maneuvered by either salt, pepper or that you lack timing to know when food ought to be removed from fire. All these are problems and when it is not treated right, when you’re still single, it becomes a problem between you and your man(depending on the individual)

“A good cook has the power to keep his man because the major source of strength of a man,is his stomach”
-Emmanuel C. Akudolu

VISION
No matter how beautiful you’re ‘Intelligence and vision will always be the compass that any purposeful man can use,in order to be directed to the woman he thinks that can make him increase in his pursuit as a successful man everyday’ One thing about a visionary is that it makes his man very focused and encouraged to pursue more in life. Very few men that are well educated and accomplished in life will be notified with a lady that’s not well built up in her career.

That’s why some high profiled men will always try to marry their type because they’ve similar things in common. Any woman that will always be keen to request money always,either for cosmetics,cloths etc will never be valuable and of no importance to the husband because she’s not all that good in putting the future into consideration,rather she’s been designed in such a way that she’s now myopic about everything. Ain’t trying to sound judgmental but it becomes a problem when it becomes excessive and that you’re not eager to work and get the money to take good care of yourself.

A lady is meant to be hardworking and a visionary and not only spending time in enjoyment. I discovered that some ladies feels reluctant to continue their education,not because they have no opportunity of furthering but have decide to rely on the wealth of her husband. By commission or omission renders you to be taken as nothing as time goes on.

“WHY AM I DELAYED IN MARRIAGE?” You’re busy asking that question everyday while some persons are busy asking, “AMONG ALL THESE MEN,WHO WILL I CHOOSE TO BE MY HUSBAND?” But the fact still remains that the second question springs forth from the mouth of a purposeful, visionary, and a very hardworking lady while the first question is asked by ladies that had already decided long time ago to build their foundation on the bed rock of her husband’s wealth and that’s very uncalled-for.

“A Lady attracts all men when she’s driven by her purpose or vision which indirectly brightens up the beauty everyday. Such beauty, never fades.
-Emmanuel C. Akudolu
…To be continued